The benefit is a concept that’s relevant to something and its value depends on each individual. Something that is beneficial to me may not be for someone else. It may be indifferent or even harmful.

The personal element is therefore what assesses the benefit or damage, profit or loss. And this criticality of personal appreciation makes us cautious in our choices. Because, in everyday life we ​​all choose the beneficial and not harmful things. Whether the benefit is great, is known only to the one who has implemented his plan and appreciates the consequences. If the goal was good and the method I applied was successful, then in any case, I can assess the outcome and evaluate the benefit or the damage. The responsibility and the assessment are therefore individual and we are all judged by the result that should be the benefit rather than the damage.

Our everyday life has darkness and light, facilities and dead ends, joys and sorrows, and once could complement in infinite situations and personal experiences with corresponding content.

All of us prefer the positive and easy things and we move away from the difficult and unpleasant ones. And that is the human nature. We prefer things nice and easy, and avoid difficult and unpleasant things. Every course that requires extra effort, as a rule – although there are exceptions to the rule – is not the way we want to go. But we all agree that the things we remember from the difficult times are more than the things we remember from quiet days.

This tells us that although we avoid them, our consciousness is shaped during these times, our personal history is written; this happens in the dead ends we managed to find a way out from and stand on our feet, that’s where our personal thermometer has captured our most extraordinary performance, and engraved with the incandescent chisel the image of success. And that determines our lives. The rest of the days are a break and not the goal.