Although this daily expression in the greek language has an adjective in the opposite sense (“have bad things come your way”), I chose this title because weather is a neutral factor.
Time, weather, circumstance can be both good and bad, depending on how one wants to interpret their everyday life. While it is usually up to us to focus on the positive and beneficial, we usually begin to grumble because we did not achieve what we had envisioned, and we always blame others for our failure.
Because while each case can have just as good as it can have bad sides, we usually highlight the bad sides, with the result of our mental world lacking the joy that offers even a slight success. If one accepts the golden rule that every cloud has a silver lining, that is, in the bad sides one can see positive elements, then it is obvious that the promotion of the bad and gray and the concealment of the positive ones, damages our own image.
The result? Because we do not focus and reproduce the good side but the bad one, we give ourselves the right to the enemy to fill the image of our life with denial and destructive poison, and that is a powerful element of our personal failure, that is, letting others decide in our lives and not decide for ourselves.